Theme | May 2023

Cultivating and Keeping the Christian Home

A Biblical and Practical Guide

From calls to dismantle the “Western-prescribed nuclear family structure” to the president claiming “our nation’s children are all our children,” it is clear that many see the family as a threat—a Lego structure to be broken apart. But our goal this month is to piece together a positive vision for the family. As confessional Baptists, we want to consider this question in particular: “How do you raise children who are not yet in the new covenant?” And what changes when they are born again? This month, we seek to address this question along with a host of others—how do parenting, discipline, and technology fit together, how do grandparents support their grandkids, what role do singles play in the Christian family, and what right does the government have in the home. The truth is: a holy family is a beautiful structure. And in spite of a government that wants to tear it down, God’s good design will endure—but only if we know what it is and how to cultivate it, brick by brick.

Table of Contents

2.20 David Schrock • Reading • “Neither Covenant Children, Nor Evangelism by Proxy: Recovering a Baptist Approach to Raising Children in the Lord”

By David Schrock • Podcast Reading • May 1
How do Baptist beliefs inform our parenting? We neither treat our children as automatic members of the covenant, nor do we neglect our holy responsibility to instruct them in the Lord.

Neither Covenant Children, Nor Evangelism by Proxy: Recovering a Baptist Approach to Raising Children in the Lord

By David Schrock • Longform Essay • May 1
How do Baptist beliefs inform our parenting? We neither treat our children as automatic members of the covenant, nor do we neglect our holy responsibility to instruct them in the Lord.

What Does It Mean for a Man to Manage His Household Well?

By Andy Naselli • Concise Article • May 2
As Jesus shepherds his sheep and as pastors shepherd their people, so fathers shepherd their families. What does a shepherd do? He knows, feeds, leads, and protects the sheep.

Children: A Blessed Necessity for Christian Marriages

By David Schrock • Concise Article • May 3
Children play a major part in God revealing his glory to the nations. So is it right for married Christians to willingly bypass kids?

The Contemporary Myth of Mutual Submission in the Christian Home (Part 1)

By Ardel Caneday • Concise Article • May 4
What did the Apostle Paul mean when he wrote “submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ”? And how is this an important aspect of discipleship for husbands, wives, and children?

The Christian Home as an Initial Realm of God’s Self-Revelation (Part 2)

By Ardel Caneday • Concise Article • May 5
Why is it so important to maintain biblical roles within the family? Because in doing so, we reflect and reveal the character of God himself.

2.21 David Schrock, Trent Hunter, Stephen Wellum • Interview • “Neither Covenant Children, Nor Evangelism by Proxy: Recovering a Baptist Approach to Raising Children in the Lord”

By David Schrock, Trent Hunter, Stephen Wellum • Podcast Interview • May 8
How do Baptist beliefs inform our parenting? We neither treat our children as automatic members of the covenant, nor do we neglect our holy responsibility to instruct them in the Lord.

Parenting 001

By Kevin DeYoung • Concise Article • May 8
Parenting is certainly hard work, but have we maybe made it a little more complicated than it needs to be?

Christian Parenting Is Evangelistic

By Ardel Caneday • Concise Article • May 10
What does the practical process of disciplining a child look like—and does this look different if you are a Baptist?

2.22 Greg Beale, David Schrock • Interview • “Union with the Resurrected Christ + Dr. Beale on the Millennium”

By Greg Beale, David Schrock • Podcast Interview • May 11
We were able to catch up with G. K. Beale to talk about his new book, ⁠Union with the Resurrected Christ: Eschatological New Creation and New Testament Biblical Theology⁠. We talk deeply about the centrality of the resurrection for the new creation, with a special bonus portion at the very end on the millennium!

Women’s Nature Is Home Making

By Abigail Dodds • Concise Article • May 12
Is the biblical injunction that women be “working at home” a cause for bristling, or a cause for rejoicing? Learn about the joy and beauty of women who serve as home-makers.

Richard Furman (1755–1825) and His Letter, “The Children of Church Members”

By Tom Nettles - Richard Furman • Longform Essay • May 12
Practically, how ought Baptists raise up and care for their unbelieving children?

2.23 Tom J. Nettles • Reading • “Richard Furman (1755–1825) and His Letter, “The Children of Church Members”

By Tom J. Nettles • Podcast Reading • May 15
Practically, how ought Baptists raise up and care for their unbelieving children?

Parenting and Technology

By Candice Watters • Concise Article • May 16
Technology is a great blessing when used rightly, yet temptations for misuse abound. So how can Christians parent wisely in our digital age?

The Christian Home: Family Worship and Teaching of the Catechism in the Home

By Greg Strand • Concise Article • May 17
God has granted parents the glorious responsibility of raising children in the instruction of the Lord, and family worship is integral to this task. So what might this look like in the home?

On Parenting Wisely in a Foolish Age

By Jonathan Woodyard • Concise Article • May 19
The world tempts us all with enticing lures. Wise parents train their children not to take the bait.

Teach His Glorious Deeds & His Wonders

By Marla Helseth • Concise Article • May 22
A government school—a place in which the majority of the people instructing your child likely do not know God, do not want to know Him, and actively work against Him—will not instill in your child anything of the knowledge of God.

2.24 Tom J. Nettles, David Schrock, Stephen Wellum • Interview • “Richard Furman (1755–1825) and His Letter, “The Children of Church Members”

By Tom J. Nettles, David Schrock, Stephen Wellum • Podcast Interview • May 22
Practically, how ought Baptists raise up and care for their unbelieving children?

The Anthropological Lie of “Same-Sex Marriage”

By Andrew T. Walker • Concise Article • May 23
Despite what the world may say, there is no such thing as same-sex "marriage". Such a relationship inevitably falls short of what marriage is according to God's good design.

Talking To Our Children About Discipline

By Trent Hunter • Concise Article • May 24
We must discipline our children, but how should we talk to our children about discipline? Hebrews 12 provides a good place to start.

Fathers Discipling Children

By Jason DeRouchie • Concise Article • May 26
Deuteronomy 6:4–9 commends formally and informally teaching our children the Supreme Commandment to love God with our everything. But what might this practically look like in daily, weekly, and yearly rhythms—in both the good times and the hard times?

Singleness in the New Covenant

By Stephen Wellum • Concise Article • May 29
The New Testament teaches that marriage is but a shadow of the relationship between Christ and his Church. So what does this mean for single Christians?

2.25 David Schrock, Stephen Wellum, Ardel Caneday, Trent Hunter • Interview • “Baptism Roundtable”

By David Schrock, Stephen Wellum, Ardel Caneday, Trent Hunter • Podcast Interview • May 29
Listen in as David Schrock, Stephen Wellum, Ardel Caneday, and Trent Hunter discuss the topic of baptism and how it relates to children.

Rejoicing in Singleness

By John Lee • Concise Article • May 31
Singleness is not just a waiting room for those who want to be married. Christian singles can joyfully pursue godliness, contentment, and fellowship within the church.

May Intermission: From the Christian Home to J. Gresham Machen’s Christianity & Liberalism

By David Schrock • Concise Article • June 1
We transition from considering the home as the building block of society to considering what J. Gresham Machen categorized as two religions: Christianity and "Liberal Christianity." Here we provide a recap of May 2023's articles and a preview of our theme in June: Christianity and Liberalism Revisited: A 100 Year Appreciation.

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